
The Disconnect Between Digital and IRL Experiences
The real world is where most sales happen. It's also where brands go blind.
For years, brands have poured money and energy into building out their digital presence. Email flows, SMS campaigns, loyalty programs, customer profiles rich enough to know what you browsed at 11pm on a Tuesday. Online, you’re known before you even hit checkout.
Walk into a store and you’re a stranger.
Unless you hand over your email at the register, that visit basically didn’t happen. No recognition, no follow-up, no connection to everything the brand already knows about you. And that’s a bigger problem than most brands realize, because 81.5% of retail sales still happen in person (Capital One Shopping Research, capitaloneshopping.com/research/online-vs-in-store-shopping-statistics). For most of those transactions, all a brand walks away with is a receipt. Not the journey that led to it, and not the person behind it.
Online, every action gets tied to an identity. Abandon your cart and there’s a follow-up email. Browse a category and there’s a personalized message waiting. The digital experience has been refined to the point where it feels almost intuitive. IRL, none of that exists. The same customer who gets a tailored email in the morning walks into a store that afternoon and gets treated like a first-timer. Two completely separate experiences, one brand.
Think about what it would actually look like if a brand truly knew you the moment you walked in. In retail, an associate who already knows your size and purchase history, who can tell you what’s new since your last visit and pull something they think you’d actually like without asking. At a restaurant, your server knows you’re gluten-free before you bring it up, remembers you were there for your anniversary last year, and has your favorite table ready. Small details that are easy to deliver when the information exists, but they completely change how the experience feels when they show up. That kind of service used to only exist at the neighborhood shop where the owner knew everyone by name. It’s doable at scale now. Most brands just haven’t figured out how to get there.
That gap has real consequences, and nowhere is it more obvious than in loyalty. Brands invest a lot into loyalty programs, the technology, the rewards, the whole operational setup designed to drive repeat visits and lifetime value. But most loyalty programs have the same blind spot: they only start counting when a sale happens. The customer’s relationship with a brand starts way before that. They walk through the store a few times before they buy. They try a restaurant twice before they make a reservation. All of that intent, all of that early interest, just disappears because it never gets captured.
The cost compounds quickly. Brands keep spending to acquire new customers and win back lapsed ones, while missing high-intent moments happening inside their own locations. A customer who has come in multiple times without buying is not a cold lead. They’re close. But without any way to know they exist, there’s no way to reach them.
Even the experts who know this space best acknowledge the nuance. Ian Dewar, a retail strategist who has worked with brands like Anthropologie and VF Corp, puts it plainly: “A good in-store conversion rate is around 20%, so that means four out of five customers walk out without buying something… It’s not necessarily a missed opportunity if you’re selling something that requires thoughtful processing to buy.”
That’s exactly the point. Not every visit ends with a transaction, and it shouldn’t have to. A customer who walks in three times before buying isn’t a missed opportunity, they’re a relationship in progress. The problem is that brands have no way to recognize that person, no way to continue the conversation, and no way to connect those visits to anything meaningful. So whether they eventually buy or don’t, the brand is starting from zero every single time.
When you lay it out, what’s missing is pretty simple. Digital has three things physical doesn’t:
- You know who someone is the moment they arrive
- You can reach them while they’re still there
- You can follow up in a way that’s actually relevant to what they did
That whole middle part of the visit, the browsing, the discovery, the moment someone picks something up and puts it back down, is completely invisible. So post-visit follow-up ends up being generic. No distinction between the person who came in three times without buying and the person who bought once and never came back. They get the same message because the visit itself left no record.
What needs to change isn’t another loyalty mechanic or a better CRM setup. It’s making sure the person who walks through the door is the same person the brand already knows online. When a customer taps their phone on a Sotto device, they start an opted-in SMS conversation in real time. The brand knows who’s there. That conversation doesn’t end when they leave. It continues, gets smarter with every interaction, and builds the kind of context that makes a loyalty program feel less like a points game and more like an actual relationship.
Traffic is the starting point. Recognizing it, engaging it, and bringing it back is where the real opportunity lives. That’s exactly what Sotto is built for.